Pledge your allegiance to yourself..

Those who know me personally will testify to this. If it was something that I really committed myself to, I don't think there's anything that could stop me becoming President of the United States. And I feel like you should feel the same way.. Open yourself to the possibility of failure.. If you give it all you've got, there is a huge chane of success.. I don't know how else to say this but listen.. The only thing stopping you is yourself...

See, I don't know what my calling is, but I want to be here for a bigger reason. I strive to be like the greatest people who have ever lived. So whatever I find myself doing, give it my all. My roommates think I'm nutz, my friends think I will burn out, I've had an ex accuse me of being a workaholic, some friends say I don't have time for them. I have tried to accommodate everyone and spend time with friends but as human, we are never satisfied... People will always want more.

What I'm trying to say is; if you find yourself in similar situation, just remember that you have to do you first...your allegiance is to yourself and your future... Give it your all while you are young and agile.. Just do it...
See, successful men are those that take one more step even when they know they can't go future.. You've just gotta do it partner... Don't let yourself hold you back!!!!

Think about this..
salute..

Find that "You"

Surrounding yourself with good people and just finding out what you know how to do and doing it well that's the only way to go. Whatever it is, If it's flipping hamburgers at Burgerkimg, be the best hamburger flipper in the whole universe. Do whatever you have to do to master your craft. Everybody's not gonna be a star, a doctor, a lawyer or an engineer. Everybody's not gonna have the same level of intelligence, ability or opportunity in life. So don't hold back and hide under any excuses. You have to find out what you know how to do best. I mean, there's some things that I can't do. I don't know how to golf. I can't build a software, I'm no computer genius, but I know will definitely sell you a snowman at the north-pole. You know what I'm saying?
People, You've gotta find out what you know how to do.. it's not about what you are told to do. It's about what you know how to do best.

Where is It? What is it?

So many people strive for it. So many people will do anything to have it. People go far and wide to find it. Some people spend sleepless nights trying to figure it out. Some people give up trying to find it. Individuals who give up never find it. Those who seek it diligently find it. Perhaps, you are thinking that thing is very essential and everyone must be looking for it that's why its scarce. The truth is that some people don't even care to search for it. What’s the deal with these individuals? (I would tell you if I knew).Success. It is a virus that has affected our minds. We all want this virus. It’s the best virus that anyone can have. I call it virus because, depending on how you manage it, it can either make you or break you. For all that seek it; it’s the defining point of self-actualization. When you see a successful individual, you will know he is successful. Where is this virus called success? From where did those who found it get it?
The answer to these questions is simple. Your ability to succeed is right within you. Its right on your finger tip. Those who found it are not lucky. They just didn't give up. They say to themselves 'I will make it". No doubt, they did. Success is very relative. The idea of success varies from one person to another. I count myself as one of the successful individuals that roam the planet. Now, I'm not just saying that because it feels good. I actually see my self as being successful. Now you might say to yourself 'he is just being full of himself'.The truth is that until you count yourself as a success, you are not a success. Do you think people who we consider successful don't want to attain a higher level of success? Although they are successful, they still strive to be more successful. These successful people measure their success according to their own scale. That's how it should be done. Until you manufacture a scale to measure your success, you will never be successful. You will keep searching for it and you will never know when you have it.
This is how I measure mine thus the reason I identify myself as successful. I measure my success based on previous success. I strive to do better. As a student, I strive to do better than I did on the last test. If I can achieve this, then I am successful. Most people compare their success to other people's success. This is very unhealthy. What works for person A may and may not work for person B. Person B will continue to strive to attain person A's success but will never make it. Meanwhile Person A is striving for higher grounds. The reason for this is so simple. You are not person A.
I advise you to find what works for you. Do it your way. Measure your success your way. This way, you will be less stressed. You will be happier knowing that you are actually making success. And when you realize this, manage your success well.

Only You.

No one else but you. This is a very powerful concept that the majority of today's society don't understand. Some do understand while others are still in the dark. My ultimate aim is that at the end of this little blog, those that don't understand will have a clearer view of this

powerful concept.

The human brain is one of the most special things in the world. Its what defines who we are. Its what differentiates you from your neighbor. Its what direct our thinking, imagination, consciousness, intelligence, emotions, dreams, and so on. The list could go on. On a biological/practical level. even identical twins cant have the same brain. It is indeed what makes you you.

I think everyone knows about the wonders of the brain. But very very few individuals understands and identifies with the 'you' in the brain. And only those that identifies with their 'you' take charge of their lives, and become successful at whatever they do.
As humans, there are expectations that have been placed on us by our loved ones. We feel that our duty is to fulfill those expectations. There is nothing wrong with that. The question you should ask yourself is; Are these expectations realistic, and are they what i want for myself. If the answer is no. Then you are not obliged to go against your wishes to satisfy these expectations.